M2.1: dedicated server, joining, identity handshake, names, lobby

- Net autoload: headless dedicated server (--server) on UDP 24242 via ENet,
  server.json preferences (flags override per run, never saved), reserved
  names in names.json
- Identity: RSA-2048 key per install (Godot has no Ed25519), player id =
  key hash, challenge/response so ids can't be faked; profile with name
  and limited appearance (tunic, hair, beard)
- Server refuses bans, allowlist misses, duplicate logins, bad or taken
  names, wrong passwords, old protocol versions and a full server, each
  with a clear reason; first player on a new server becomes admin
- Title screen: Profile, Join Game, and a lobby with server info, rules
  and who's online
- test_net_lobby: real headless server + bot processes over UDP (38
  checks); --exit-with so test servers never outlive the test

tests/run_all.sh

@@ -4,7 +4,7 @@
 # Usage: tests/run_all.sh   (from the repo root; needs `godot` on PATH)
 cd "$(dirname "$0")/.." || exit 1
 status=0
-for t in test_survival_core test_survival_stats test_save_load test_weather_building test_creatures_combat test_wolves test_fishing_diet test_terrain_edges test_boundary; do
+for t in test_survival_core test_survival_stats test_save_load test_weather_building test_creatures_combat test_wolves test_fishing_diet test_net_lobby test_terrain_edges test_boundary; do
 	extra=""
 	[ "$t" = "test_boundary" ] && extra="--fixed-fps 30"
 	# A suite that waits on a world that failed to load would hang forever,